On Love

Love, the love of family, friends and partners. The base of all relationships of love is trust and to be trusted you must be loyal. loyalty is the key here, loyal to your family so as to not go against their wishes unless it is unreasonable. To be loyal to your family is to be free of guilt around them meaning you will carry yourself higher then one who defies. Your family will always be there for you and they do love you even if they have passed. You must remember them with love, do not vilify them, nor raise them up to god status in your heart as doing both are equally wrong. You must love your living relatives with your whole heart as they love you all the same. You must love them and respect them, not disrespect them to lose their trust and loyalty. Your family have been their through growth or you have been there for them. Either way you have experienced much together. You cannot block them out as that is simply cruel to yourself and them. You can only experience stronger love for them, never lesser or none.


The love of friends, to love friends is to be a good friend yourself, to love them and defend them like family, to accept their quirks and flaws and embrace them. To respect their wishes and treat their decisions with no cruelty or heartlessness. To care for them as well as you can. To surround yourself with your friends and allow yourself to be flexible. To be there when they need you and to not abandon them if they require you. To be able to be open about your feelings and thoughts around them. For them to understand the real you instead of the fake one we all wear. To give and expect none in return, to be able to take a joke when given by them. Your friends will be your family outside your family so you must respect them.


The love of a partner differs from all others. It is of a mutual attraction, but this attraction can disappear with time, and that is truth, but when you love someone you must put their needs before your own. To give your whole and change things, just for them, which you would do for no other. But, the problem is, when our heart changes, it causes problems, anger or sadness which can lead to other problems, but from love we learn, and are made a better person s a result. Without pain life is barren so loves problems are merely life's obstacles.

On Happiness

 NOTE: this, is NOT the almighty way of life, this is merely my personal opinion based off my life and my experiences, i follow this as much as possible but one cannot follow it at all times as other emotions can be felt.

To be happy, you must be positive, you cannot reflect on sadness ever second of every day if you intend to be happy. You must surround yourself with your family and friends as without them you are but a single lonely entity, you must have them by you even if that means doing something you will not to do. You must find your passion and dream and chase it like it was the last thing you had to do as with that job happiness may be brought as you will enjoy it if your heart is in it, you will enjoy it if you love it. You must also look for the good in people, the glass is half full not half empty. See the best in people and be happy about their mistakes, and yours. Reflect on one self and accept your mistakes as not a failure, but a challenge to try harder! To do better! You must attempt to be compassionate, friendly and tolerant of others, compassion to lend your ear when someone need it or comforting someone when they are sore, emotionally or physically. Friendliness as be friendly and people will be friendly to you! Or, at least, the people of good intentions and heart will, if you have not hurt them before. Tolerance as you must overlook others mistakes and flaws! You cannot change them! Even if they wanted to, they couldn't either as they are flawed and so are you. Be tolerant of others appearance, dont judge a book by its cover!


Seek to understand others and be social. Also, take the time to reflect on yourself and discover who you are, try to work out who you are, what you like, talk to someone about yourself if you need to! Men, this one is for you, do not hide your emotions inside like society and media tells you to, it is unhealthy, do not be afraid to shed a tear when a character in your favorite book dies, you fall over? Cry if you need to! For the women, do not attempt to mimic the famous looks with extreme amounts of makeup, it hides yourself and to many seems fake, a small amount brings out the beauty on the outside but never can it improve your inside. Only you can make that beautiful.

On work

You must love what you do. This is the simplest way to put it. You must love your job even if it pays little, because I would rather have a poor paying job and be happy, then be a rich man living the “dream” with a high paying job but be miserable. You must find your dream and stick to it, no matter what other people tell you, “your insane.”, “Find a more realistic dream.” Take this to heart! But DO NOT follow it, take this as a challenge to reach your goal, follow, no, sprint after your dream as if your life depended on it, because your life DOES depend on it, your life of happiness, of utter tranquillity, depends on what you follow, what you do and how hard you do it. You want to be a singer? Grab your dream by the horns and make it yours! You want to be a Blacksmith? Wrestle that dream to the ground and keep it there! Let it go and someone who wants it just as much, or in this case, more, will get it and find their life of happiness. Don’t let them steal your dream, they have no right to take your dream but they are not stealing if you just allow it to slip between your grips. You will be happier when you find your dream. If you haven’t found what you love yet, don’t worry, it’s never too late to discover your true calling in life, just when you find it, never let that dream, that passion, go. Find that job… because I bet you, thousands or tens of thousands of people want that dream just as much as you and it will not be easy to get it. No one ever took no risk and got a happy life, we have all taken risks to succeed, if you haven’t, you haven’t lived nor found truth. That may be brutally honest but the world never evolved, nor did our ancestors come from monkeys by watching the world or allowing others to do what we want, no, they fought hard and long for it. They gained rational thought, they followed their dreams against all odds. Some of our greats, the ones we see as amazing and god-like, didn’t just get there, they fought hard, got thrown on their face by disappointment, hurt and sore but they got back up, dusted themselves off, and continued with their dream. And if your idea is crazy? Then ever more the reason to follow it as crazy changes the world! Einstein, Socrates, Michael Jordan, people we see as life changing? They were crazy at first! They thought big, dreamed large and look where that got them, they are in our memories forever. Now, you may not want fame, you may want simple happiness like me but you must then find that simple passion and follow it. Because you are not the only one with that goal, there are many with that noble goal, to live a life of simplicity, of happiness, of owing no debts or favours to anyone, to merely help people as it is natural. To give because they need, not want. To be polite and friendly not because they are told to, but because that is merely the thing that is right and just. To live and work as such is to be rich, not in coin but in mind, body and soul. Love what you do, and follow, your, dream…