On Happiness

 NOTE: this, is NOT the almighty way of life, this is merely my personal opinion based off my life and my experiences, i follow this as much as possible but one cannot follow it at all times as other emotions can be felt.

To be happy, you must be positive, you cannot reflect on sadness ever second of every day if you intend to be happy. You must surround yourself with your family and friends as without them you are but a single lonely entity, you must have them by you even if that means doing something you will not to do. You must find your passion and dream and chase it like it was the last thing you had to do as with that job happiness may be brought as you will enjoy it if your heart is in it, you will enjoy it if you love it. You must also look for the good in people, the glass is half full not half empty. See the best in people and be happy about their mistakes, and yours. Reflect on one self and accept your mistakes as not a failure, but a challenge to try harder! To do better! You must attempt to be compassionate, friendly and tolerant of others, compassion to lend your ear when someone need it or comforting someone when they are sore, emotionally or physically. Friendliness as be friendly and people will be friendly to you! Or, at least, the people of good intentions and heart will, if you have not hurt them before. Tolerance as you must overlook others mistakes and flaws! You cannot change them! Even if they wanted to, they couldn't either as they are flawed and so are you. Be tolerant of others appearance, dont judge a book by its cover!


Seek to understand others and be social. Also, take the time to reflect on yourself and discover who you are, try to work out who you are, what you like, talk to someone about yourself if you need to! Men, this one is for you, do not hide your emotions inside like society and media tells you to, it is unhealthy, do not be afraid to shed a tear when a character in your favorite book dies, you fall over? Cry if you need to! For the women, do not attempt to mimic the famous looks with extreme amounts of makeup, it hides yourself and to many seems fake, a small amount brings out the beauty on the outside but never can it improve your inside. Only you can make that beautiful.