On Love

Love, the love of family, friends and partners. The base of all relationships of love is trust and to be trusted you must be loyal. loyalty is the key here, loyal to your family so as to not go against their wishes unless it is unreasonable. To be loyal to your family is to be free of guilt around them meaning you will carry yourself higher then one who defies. Your family will always be there for you and they do love you even if they have passed. You must remember them with love, do not vilify them, nor raise them up to god status in your heart as doing both are equally wrong. You must love your living relatives with your whole heart as they love you all the same. You must love them and respect them, not disrespect them to lose their trust and loyalty. Your family have been their through growth or you have been there for them. Either way you have experienced much together. You cannot block them out as that is simply cruel to yourself and them. You can only experience stronger love for them, never lesser or none.


The love of friends, to love friends is to be a good friend yourself, to love them and defend them like family, to accept their quirks and flaws and embrace them. To respect their wishes and treat their decisions with no cruelty or heartlessness. To care for them as well as you can. To surround yourself with your friends and allow yourself to be flexible. To be there when they need you and to not abandon them if they require you. To be able to be open about your feelings and thoughts around them. For them to understand the real you instead of the fake one we all wear. To give and expect none in return, to be able to take a joke when given by them. Your friends will be your family outside your family so you must respect them.


The love of a partner differs from all others. It is of a mutual attraction, but this attraction can disappear with time, and that is truth, but when you love someone you must put their needs before your own. To give your whole and change things, just for them, which you would do for no other. But, the problem is, when our heart changes, it causes problems, anger or sadness which can lead to other problems, but from love we learn, and are made a better person s a result. Without pain life is barren so loves problems are merely life's obstacles.